ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP: CHARACTERISTICS OF THE ABUSER AND HARM TO THE VICTIM

Abstract

Historically, women have occupied positions of submission in relation to men, which contributes to their vulnerability in abusive relationships marked by physical and psychological violence. In such situations, victims often struggle to break free, resulting in significant emotional harm. This study conducted qualitative field research through interviews with women who experienced and managed to leave abusive relationships. The objective was to identify the psychological profiles of both victim and aggressor, as well as the emotional consequences arising from such harmful dynamics, while also validating existing theoretical frameworks. Based on empirical data and literature, particularly through the lens of psychoanalysis, it was found that the aggressor tends to exhibit controlling and manipulative behavior, reinforcing a sense of superiority. The victim, in turn, assumes a passive role, characterized by emotional dependency and difficulty in setting boundaries, leading to emotional exhaustion. The recognition of abuse is essential for breaking this cycle, and psychotherapy plays a crucial role in deconstructing repetitive patterns and fostering emotional autonomy.

DOI: https://doi.org/10.56238/sevened2026.001-032